Tuesday, June 26, 2012
Today Is, "Straight From Your Gay Best Friend" Advice Day With Bossip...
Mr. Terrance Dean! First, let me start by saying you are the bomb! Your advice is too real!
It’s my turn to feel you!! Here goes nothing!
I’ve been with my boyfriend on an off for 13 years. We have no children together, but he has 3 children from 3 different women. He wants me to trust him and be in a committed relationship, but I can’t find it in my heart to believe him. My boyfriend had his first child when I was 4 months pregnant when he told me. I stressed myself out and miscarried. I moved to Atlanta for 2 years to clear my head from him.
Within one year of living in Atlanta we still kept in contact and I found about his 2nd child from a different girl. I moved back to our home town, and we worked things out. We recently moved in together and I found out about his 3rd child that he didn’t tell me about, when I asked him about it he says the child is two years old and the reason he didn’t tell me is because he didn’t know when the time would be right to tell me. So, he has 3 daughters ages 5, 4, and 2 years old. All of the baby mother’s are seeking child support payments from him. He claims he is not with this ghetto stuff and he could care less about being on child support, he wants nothing to do with any of the mothers.
He tells me all the time I need to trust him and that he has changed. He says that he is not doing anything with any other women, and that he is done hurting me. He tells me all the time my insecurities are hurting our relationship. But, I still cannot trust him. When his phone rings I think it’s another woman. When he leaves the house I think he’s going to make another baby. I don’t know how to get over this hurtle. Help me please! – Lost and confused
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