Thursday, April 5, 2012

Today is, "Straight From Your Gay Best Friend" Advice Day With Bossip...

Dear Bossip,

First of all, I want to say that I really love your brutal honest advice and I enjoy reading your blog.

Two years ago, I met this incredible young lady, and let’s just call her ‘Tina.’ We became friends and got along really well. She met this amazing guy and they decided to get married. Tina made me her maid of honor on her wedding day. Things were really good, and then she became pregnant mid last year. Unfortunately, she died in January this year as she was giving birth. She didn’t even get the chance to see her son, but fortunately the baby survived.

Now, here is the story: I have been hanging around the husband a lot, and on a friendship basis. He has been really nice to me, and I think I’m developing feelings for him. I think about him all the time, and I’m beginning to see him in a new light. He is so nice, and would actually make perfect husband material. I cannot see myself with any other man except for him. But, the other problem is he still talks about his wife a lot, maybe it’s because it’s just been four months. But, I have been dropping hints of interest and he is not even noticing. I also believe I can be a good mother to the child.

From reading your blogs, you always state that going after your friend’s man is a Big NO-NO. But, what if she is dead! Is it still a Big NO-NO? – In Love With Him

You can read my response, HERE: 
http://bossip.com/568396/dear-bossip-my-friend-died-while-in-labor-4-months-ago-im-interested-in-her-husband/ 

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

I agree with you 100% on this. This "woman" if you really want to call her that is BEYOND trifling. She knows she has had a thing for this man for quite some time now and now she thinks she is going to just swoop in and become wifey number two and mother to her friends child. I am telling you that is something that would cause me to come out of the grave and haunt the HELL out of a b***h!. I'm talking some real Poltergeist type of ish. All I am saying is with friends like that you don't need no enemies. Pathetic