Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Today is, "Straight From Your Gay Best Friend" Advice Day With Bossip...

Dear Bossip,

First, I would like to start off by saying I do love this website.

I really like the fact that you do offer advice whether some of us are in a real relationship, or some of us are not. I love it.

Moving forward, I wanna start off by saying I am a 23 year old black female who have a serious problem. I never truly thought about it until now, but I am Pam (you know from the TV show, Martin). For example, I have been seeing a guy for about two months. We’ve been having fun, but then out of thin air he disappears. We haven’t had an argument or anything. But, New Year’s rolls around and I heard absolutely nothing from him and we were supposed to spend New Year’s Eve together, but of course we didn’t.

Needless to say I’ve been calling and texting him, but still no reply not even a sorry or excuse me…nothing! And, to make matters worse is that he will answer calls from a different number but just not mine, and he lives like five minutes away from me .

The sex was always good, but now I’m just running out of reasons he could have left me the way he did. Maybe it was out with the old and in with the new. But, damn, he could have given me a valid reason for the cut off! I don’t think I’m in denial. Like, no matter how many guys ask me for my number on a daily basis I just can’t, and I don’t wanna feel this feeling again. So, I always reply, “No, I got a boyfriend,” when actually I don’t. I’ve given up on being in love at only 23years old and refuse to look back. – Over Love

You can read my response, HERE:
http://bossip.com/530947/dear-bossip-after-2-months-of-dating-he-disappears-wont-return-my-calls-or-texts/

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