Dear Bossip,
I have been involved with my husband for the past 14 years and married to him for the past ten years.
We have a beautiful family of 4 children and we attend church regularly. He is an avid drug user and has been using for the entire time that I have known him, so I am not surprised to have the problems that I do. All these years I have done all the taking care of expenses in the home. My husband has always had a job and made good money, but most of it would goes toward the addiction. My paychecks would keep the home running smoothly. Another issue is that all these years I have been in school, so this past May I finally graduated with my degree in Accounting.
The main problem is this: His behavior no longer fits into my new life as a young black professional. What do I do? I am tired of his excuses, and now his addiction has grown significantly worse. He used to go and get high every few months, but now it is daily. He never does drugs in our home, nor does his alternative lifestyle ever come in view of our family. When he is not on drugs he is the most caring, loyal, provider you will ever want to meet. What do I do? – I’m Not Your Superwoman
You can read my response, HERE:
http://bossip.com/529399/dear-bossip-ive-been-married-to-a-drug-addict-for-14-years-but-he-no-longer-fits-into-my-new-life/
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