About a month ago, I went out with friends while my girlfriend stayed home.
She drank with family, and a family friend who is a friend of mine. They proceeded to drink the whole night. My girlfriend fell asleep as she normally does when she drinks too much. The issue that I’m having is that when I came home he was cuddled up next to her, and passed out under the covers with her. I wake her up and she is in shock that he is next to her. He gets up and leaves the next day. He comes back to apologize to her while I’m at work. My girlfriend says it’s cool and that she told him that she knows he didn’t mean anything by it. He waited two weeks to confront me, and he uses the, “I’m embarrassed excuse.”
Ever since then, me and him grew distant, yet it seems like whenever I’m not around they hang out. My girlfriend knows it makes me uncomfortable but he is a family friend, so there is no avoiding him. I just know that when I’m there he isn’t, but once I leave he texts her asking what she is doing, can they hangout, drink, etc.
I trust my girlfriend, and I know she doesn’t mess with dudes, but it’s him I’m worried about. Why if she fell asleep did he stay in her house, in her room, then say he passed out, yet he looked pretty comfy under the covers as if he made an effort to get comfortable before passing out? I know when I get faded I bounce from other people’s cribs. I don’t crawl in bed with them! Gimme advice and let me know what you think his intentions are and what should I do. Please help Bossip! – Leery Of My Girl’s Friend
You can read my response, HERE:
http://bossip.wordpress.com/521585/dear-bossip-i-think-my-girls-male-friend-is-up-to-something-has-an-ulterior-motive/
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