Today Is, "Straight From Your Gay Best Friend" Advice Day With Bossip...

Dear Bossip,

I have been dating my boyfriend for about nine months.

We are a happy couple and falling in love every day. I am a hardworking woman who has been at her job nearly seven years, and I am finishing my degree in psychology. My man is a hospital worker who just got laid off because of cutbacks. He just found another job at another hospital and awaiting to be called. He states I am the one for him and I feel same way. Our relationship is not perfect; we take our relationship one day at a time. And, maybe, one day we will start a family, but there is something holding me back from giving him a son or going raw dog.

When I start getting serious about someone I make them take every test possible under sun at the free clinic. He agreed to do the test with a little resistance. I kept asking him why was he so reluctant to go when I had set a date to go to the clinic. I finally broke him down and he told me that he was married before and divorced (I already knew he was married and divorced according to my Intel).

My man said that he was married for ten years and that his ex wife cheated. He found out he had Hepatitis B during a blood drive at the hospital he used to work at. My man thought I would leave if he told me the truth. I did not leave him, but my fear is catching it.

We use protection every time we are intimate. He wants children now, and he wants them naturally. My question is should I do it. I know he can get a shot to prevent Hepatitis A, B, and C, but there is still a risk.  He says I am making him feel like a disease walking. I do not know what to do. – Go Raw Or Not

You can read my response, HERE: 
http://bossip.com/518730/dear-bossip-my-man-wants-to-start-raw-dogging-for-me-to-his-children-but-he-has-hepatitis-b/

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Dear Bossip,

First, I want to say, I read a lot of the questions that you get and I must admit some of those questions have been crazy and you go pretty hard on them. I hope I am not one these…LOL !

Anyhow, I have am currently engaged and have been since July. My fiancé and I have been together for almost 2 ½ years. To me we have an okay relationship. When we have an obstacle to work through we communicate about it pretty well. If we get into it we can usually talk about it and resolve it. Overall, he’s a pretty good guy. I would not have said yes to the ring if he wasn’t.

However, the thing that he and I continue to struggle with is his lack of willingness to go above and beyond in the relationship. It’s like if you’re a manager and you have an employee that you see full potential in; and they are just meeting the minimum requirements of the job. This one is not the star employee willing to go above and beyond. He lacks with compliments, passion, romance, and spontaneity. Sometimes it’s like pulling teeth to get him to say, “Thank you,” or, “I enjoyed that meal you just spent three hours preparing.”

I have expressed these things to him several times and nothing changes. He’s not mean, but he is very passive aggressive and I am an aggressive person. I have even compromised on being so aggressive just to see if that was causing the issue. Sadly, nothing has changed. In the past he has told me that he is not used to dealing with someone like me. He’s used to dealing with chicks that do not want anything out of life except their hair and nails done. That’s the total opposite of everything that I am. I think that in their eyes this dude was a king and then he got with me and I’m like and? Because in all of my past relationships, I have been treated like the most special girl in the world and actually I didn’t have to do as much in those relationships because they weren’t worth it.

Now, I have gotten to the point with him that if he is not willing to step his game up then I am going to have to dissolve this relationship. I have made so many adjustments for this relationship because I love him. I mean he says I love you, but that’s where the buck stops. I go above and beyond to make him feel special and he has acknowledged such, so why can’t I get it in return? Am I just tripping, or am I really missing something?? I need him to get some Act Right !! – Patiently Waiting Change

You can read my response, HERE:
http://bossip.com/517446/dear-bossip-im-engaged-but-my-fiance-doesnt-put-forth-any-effort-in-the-relationship/

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Dear Bossip,

I’m 23 years old and I have a 3year old daughter.


I’ve been with the father of my child for 10 years and he has been incarcerated for the past 3 years and will be released in June of next year.

The thing is I’ve been sleeping with my next door neighbor for a year and I’m madly in love with him. He also has a 3 year old daughter and our kids play together. When we first met he told me that he was not interested in a serious relationship and was no longer with the mother of his child and I believed him.

A few months later I found out that they were still a couple and were living together but when I asked him if this was true he denied it. He then came clean and said that they were working things out for the sake of their child and that he still wants to casually sleep with me. He has said on many occasions that he doesn’t want me seeing anyone else but he knows that I will be with the father of my child when he gets out. We still plan on sneaking around when my boyfriend gets home but I want more from him. The way I feel for him I’ve never felt for anyone else not even the father of my child, but he just won’t commit to me and I can’t trust him.

Recently, at a party, I got into a confrontation with his girlfriend because they were making out in front of me and I felt disrespected because he saw that I was there and acted like he didn’t care. He vowed to never speak to me after that incident, but that was because the bitch was there but a week later and he was at my door and we’re now sleeping together again.

It seems like he’s never going to leave her alone and I just can’t continue seeing him if he doesn’t, but I don’t know how to let go because I really love him. Should I stay and hope that he changes or just leave him alone? – In Love With My Neighbor

You can read my response, HERE:
http://bossip.com/515927/dear-bossip-my-childs-father-is-in-prison-im-sleeping-with-my-neighbor-i-want-more-with-him/

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Dear Bossip,

I’ve always known I was “born this way (gay),” but as I get older my attraction to females has grown.

No sooner than I came out of the closet to my family and friends, now all of a sudden I feel straighter than ever. Why do I always contradict myself? The only reason I ever wanted to be straight was because it is easier to show love in public, it’s easier to be around family and friends, straight people just seem more happy. Now, since I am no longer a virgin with girls, I’m starting to feel very indecisive once again.

I’ve grown to resent my homosexual encounters because I still cannot find someone who I feel is “man enough for me,” yet I feel more than a man for everyone else. The same applies to females. I would love to just pick one thing and stick with it, but when I pick to be gay, then I am faced with “top” or “bottom” which to me is too similar to “male” or “female”…and that puts me right back where I started.

When I choose to be with a female I feel locked into “the man role.”  Being versatile to me is another way of saying, “I’m a freak, I don’t care what we do, just do something to me.” Maybe I should change the way I think. Everything is getting “old” to me. I feel rushed to find a partner because I see everyone bunned up and I want to feel that experience. At the same, I enjoy being a “bottom” for guys, but when I’m with girls it’s almost as if I never had a homosexual thought or tendency ever.

I’m not DL. I’ve actually admitted my sexual experiments to females, some accept, most don’t. However, the curiosity surrounding homosexuality is so intriguing that most people intentionally say the opposite of what they mean. I am so tired of these reverse psychology games. Why can’t I find that one guy who will truly dominate me or one girl who will truly submit?

I use to be a firm believer in, “Being whatever you want.” In other words, you have to be a real “thug” if that is they type of guy you want. But, now nothing I think is making any sense. I am in my early 20’s, very successful career, very confident, very attractive, but I feel like I’m lacking something. Could it be love? I’m sensitive so don’t curry (come 4) me. LOL – Sexually Confused

You can read my response, HERE: 
http://bossip.com/515177/dear-bossip-i-know-im-gay-i-like-women-but-i-dont-always-want-to-be-the-man-in-relationships/

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Dear Bossip,

I need advice really badly.  OK, I met my ex-boyfriend when I was 17 and he was 29 years old.

We were together for 5 years. This man also supported me financially by helping me get a car after high school and giving me a weekly allowance so I that didn’t have to work while in school. Throughout those years, we’ve had our ups and downs but ultimately I loved this man. Five years into our relationship he dumps me over something really petty. I was completely heartbroken but decided it was for the best.

So, I move away and we stayed in touch on and off. About 6 months after our break-up I realized that my life is just so much better without him. I no longer had to stress over him cheating on me or getting abusive or his momma who hated me. I ended up moving back home and started dating my now husband. This is when my ex started stalking me. He would be sitting outside my house, showing up unannounced, leaving crazy threatening voice message, etc. He’s now telling me he loves me and wants to marry me. I changed my number, involved the police, told everyone what was going on.

So, after about 3 months he finally starts to leave me alone. We get married, have a baby, move into our new house- start living a wonderful life with my hubby…Then, bam! Dude sends me an-8 page, 12 font, single spaced letter to my new house! It was part love letter and part confessions of a delusional man. We got the police involved again and I was really stressed out over the whole situation. I was missing work, throwing up, just plain sick. About two weeks later I learned I was pregnant. Then my husband says something I did not expect: he accuses me of having sex with my ex (in his words: “How did he know where we live?”) and carrying his baby.

Now, we start having marital problems. My ex sends packages to my job and home.  I mean it was crazy. The last letter he sends states he will never contact me again. Good! So, I have the baby and things start to get a little more normal. (Still having marital problems though). But, I don’t know why I have been having dreams about my ex. Some dreams are of him chasing me. Others are of us being in the same room and me trying to get out. I just had one last night of him proposing me to me and saying he will take care of me and my kids. What does this all mean? Why am I dreaming of him? I don’t even dream about my husband!

I know I can’t talk to my husband about this because he will just accuse me of cheating on him again… I just cannot talk to that man. I’m starting to think that he is working with a witch doctor or something to get into my psyche. I’ve only started having these dreams after he started stalking me the second time around. I know I still care for my ex, but another relationship- HELL NO! I value myself too highly to even consider cheating on my husband with him or leaving to be with him. Last night, I jumped up and started praying over my kids because I was so shook up from the dream. What should I do? – Dreaming Of Mr. Wrong

You can read my response, HERE:
http://bossip.com/514164/dear-bossip-im-married-but-my-ex-keeps-harassing-stalking-me/#.TvISWM9XQhc.facebook

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Dear Bossip,

I really need help sorting this situation out with logic rather my emotions.


I recently started dating a guy (about two months now). We really clicked and the chemistry is crazy. I’ve never connected with anyone like this before. We’ve hang out a few times, and I’ve meant a few members of his family. And things seems to be going ok… (We have not been intimate).

I knew he had a child from a previous relationship, but it was my understanding that him and the child’s mother were no longer together. But, of course he communicated they had a child together.

Well, come to find out…I had received an interesting voice message from, lo and behold, his WIFE who was expecting their second child!!

Shocked and devastated, I confronted him. Long story short, he said that they were “not together,” they were officially separated, and stopped living together 4 months before meeting me, and that she refuses to sign the divorce papers. That she was jealous, etc., blah blah, etc…

And the reason he didn’t come out front with it, was because he didn’t want to scare me off.
So what do I do? Could there be some truth to this twisted situation?

I have since been ignoring his calls, texts , but he is nonstop and wants to start over, fresh, brand new.
But I can’t ignore the elephant in room. Second child on the way – in three months. Still legally married.

I obviously do not want to invest time in someone who is unavailable and taken. That is just not cool. Do I just ignore him until he falls off the face of the earth? LOL…

I’m not mad at him (per se) just sad and disappointed. Because I really did start to have feelings for him and I kind of want closure. So, I feel at some point a conversation will have to take place.

Could we keep it in the friend/buddy lane? Any comments/advice you can provide would be great. I need a point of view that is neutral to the situation or the people involved. Thanks for your help! – Should I Believe Him

You can read my response, HERE:
http://bossip.com/512526/dear-bossip-ive-learned-the-man-ive-been-seeing-is-married-theyre-expecting-another-child/

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Dear Bossip,

I just broke up with my ex-boyfriend 3 months ago and I still feel those feelings.

I was in a in a relationship with a person who lived 45 minutes away and owns a company. The major way I would talk to him was by texting, and he decided to go 3 months almost 4 months without texting me or having any contact. I waited until the end of the third month to text him “How are you?” just to see what he would say. He responded back saying, “Who is this?” I told him who it was and he did not respond back.

So, two days later I sent him an angry SMS message on his phone and it was three paragraphs of anger because I invested so much in this man. He responded back saying, “Sorry you’re nothing but a sweetheart I just have not had time.”  I asked him was it me? “Tell me the truth I can handle it because it will hurt me more to not know the truth,” I said. He told me that it was not it me and that it was him and to give him some time. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and told him I will pray for him and hope he’s okay and get well. (Time passes and time passes), NADA for a month. (5 months)

So, I sent him a break-up email. Right after I sent the email he told me he that I was right and he did not deserve me or all of the nice things that I said about him, and that I deserved more, and that he wants to keep in contact with me and apologized for not being mature. I have never been so confused in my life and maybe someone can shed light on why a man would do that?

I never wanted to break up, but how could he go 5 months ignoring me but he turns around to call me amazing and apologize? Even saying he wants to keep in contact. WTF? He says it’s because he is busy working most of the time and I know he is a hardworking man but can someone really be that busy? – Ms. Freaking Confused

You can read my response, HERE:
http://bossip.com/511562/dear-bossip-i-hadnt-heard-from-my-boyfriend-for-3-months-when-i-texted-him-he-responded-who-is-this/

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Dear Bossip,

I am a lady aged 26, and I have been seeing this guy who is 29 years old for about 4 months and everything is going on well.


He treats me with respect and really knows how to show a woman a good time. Ever since we met we had not yet had sex until this past weekend, but then I realized one thing: His penis is not circumcised.
He asked me to give him head and I did, but after that I threw up. He asked me what the problem was, and I just cooked up an excuse. But, we then did not manage to proceed to the sexual intercourse.

Do I tell him that I prefer a circumcised penis or what? I cannot let this guy go because he is a very nice man. What should I do? Yours In A Dilemma

You can read my response, HERE:
http://bossip.com/511019/dear-bossip-hes-uncircumcised-and-im-turned-off-by-it/

Today Is, "Straight From Your Gay Best Friend" Advice Day With Hello Beautiful...

Dear Gay Best Friend,

I need some understanding. My 17-year old son revealed to me that he is bisexual.

I have always thought that he was gay. I think I understand gay and lesbian. Please inform me on bisexuality. I asked my son if he was using prophylactics and he said, “Yes, all the time with boys and girls.” My friends are ok, except one, she thinks that I am too calm. Help me out. – Need Understanding

You can read my response, HERE:
http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/terrancedean/my-17-year-old-son-revealed-to-me-that-he-is-bi-sexual/

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Dear Bossip,

Ok, so where do I begin? Here it goes! Maybe 4 months ago, I met a gentleman online.

We exchanged numbers and gained a really close bond. Talking on the phone 2 to 3 times a day; morning, noon and night. We built a great relationship, for at least I thought. Mind you, he lived in Illinois and I reside in Virginia. So, he suggested I fly up to finally meet.

I purchased my own airline ticket by the way, because he stated; that was all the spending I had to do, and he was correct. I arrived to Illinois, he picked me up from the airport; and again, mind you, this was our very first time meeting in person. So, I really liked what I saw. He was “such” a Gentleman, and YES, he took very good care of me; I did not spend a DIME; stayed for 4 nights. AWESOME!

He introduced me to several of his friends; either they came by or we drove to their homes, which I thought was very sweet. Anyway, to make a long story short, the day of my departure, he asked if I mind if we stop at his brother’s home before going to the airport. Well, of course, I had no problem. His brother, wife and kids were all very nice and hospitable.

So, when it was time to head to the airport, and after getting halfway there, I realized, I left my coat at his brother’s home. Don’t ask? Don’t know how I left a “coat” while visiting Illinois, but I did and we did not have enough time to turn around. Ok, so, I get back home safely to Virginia and I call my friend to let him know; I’m home Babe. We spoke briefly because I was a little tired from the trip, so I suggested we speak the next day. This is where things get really WEIRD!

The next day I call him and I get his voice-mail, and this occurred quite frequently. To the point where I’m becoming questionable. Previously, this is a man that called all the time and never missed any of my calls. But, NOW, he has no conversation, at all! Ok, I’m confused like HELL!

I finally sat still and focused on him, and just the entire event, and came to the conclusion that, here is this 45-year old man who needed his friends and family to OK me! Terrance, am I right or wrong?

I’m hurt and I feel very, mislead by someone  that I really, really, thought I knew and liked very much so!  I’ve emailed and have only called twice in a respectful manner. Terrance, I’m just trying to get my coat, for real! The second time I called I couldn’t leave a message because his voice-mail is full. WHAT DO I DO?

I’ve accepted and respected his wishes of not wanting to communicate with me further; I get it, I GUESS. But now, I feel as though he’s playing with me and my feelings by totally ignoring me all together. Now, I have his brother’s number and DO NOT want to call him, but seriously, should I? I’m thinking maybe his brother can talk him into at least sending me a YES, via email, pertaining to my Coat. Is this crazy or what? I need some answers. – MAD & MISSING MY COAT!

You can read my response, HERE:
http://bossip.com/509885/dear-bossip-we-met-online-i-went-to-visit-him-but-i-left-my-coat-he-wont-answer-my-calls/

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Hello Bossip,

My hubby and I have been married 10 years with 2 kids. He is in the military.

I am having a serious problem and I will try to make this short even though there is a lot to my story.
One night we had friends over and we were drinking and ended up messing around with another couple. (Me with her hubby, her with mine) This is not something we have ever done before. Ever since then my hubby keeps asking for a threesome with another girl. I keep saying no!!

One night after my birthday, and a couple drinks, he invited the husband over without me knowing, as I was half asleep and drunk. In the morning he told me we had a threesome. (Same husband from above)

I told him after that I never want to do it again because I know its wrong and I was not raised that way. Months later, I went through his cell phone and found a girl he was texting. He was telling her how he wanted her to send him naked pictures, and he wanted to sleep with her. When I confronted him, he said they met at the car wash after almost crashing into each other. They exchanged numbers, and they were basically just texting, and had never met up. He deleted her number after I confronted him.

Everything was fine until he went out of state, and when he came home I found another text with a different girl, and he was again asking for more pictures and asking if she wanted a threesome. I confronted him. He tried to say someone was using his phone, but I knew that was a lie. So, finally he tells me he was sorry and doesn’t want me to be mad because he never got a picture, and they never met up. There were no pictures when I looked through his phone.

He is now deployed. Recently he came home on R & R and when he left to go back to Afghan, I saw a message on his Facebook page from another girl asking her to send him pictures to his email. I confronted him. He said he never got the picture and that he was sorry.  After that I noticed he deleted her from his Facebook page. At this point I was so mad I told him I didn’t want to talk anymore. I was feeling totally disrespected and I feel I can’t trust him. He kept trying to talk and I told him when he finds a way to regain my trust then we can talk.

What do you think I should do? It’s been four days and he hasn’t emailed me again trying to apologize or open up as to what his problem is. I am heart-broken and confused because even though he hasn’t cheated, I can’t help but wonder why he keeps asking for pictures because I also send him picturess when he ask me to. And, trust me, I do take sexy pictures because he is my husband. So, I don’t know what the problem is. I am only 110 lbs. He always tells me I am pretty, so I know he is not looking for something else because I am not fat and ugly. I need help figuring out what to do. I don’t want my kids to miss out on not having Dad around but I just feel totally disrespected because I have talked to him each time I caught him which is now the 3rd time. Help me please. Thanks. – Confused And Tired

You can read my response, HERE:
http://bossip.com/509284/dear-bossip-i-keep-catching-my-husband-inappropriately-texting-other-women/

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Dear Gay Best Friend,

I am 20 years old. My husband is 29 years old. I want to start by saying I love him very much. My question to you is: He has this friend, LOL, I sound horrible already! I am very, very attracted to this friend. This friend is very attracted to me as well. He comes over a lot, most of the time when my husband is at work. We have struck up a stronger relationship than he and my husband, or even me and my husband have. We have even discussed the, “if I ever leave my husband” topic.

I love my husband. I want to be with him, but I just don’t feel as attracted to him as I do toward his friend. I have thought about everything. That’s all I ever do. I’m head over heels for this guy, LOL. I don’t know what to do. I’m so torn.

I have brought up stuff like this to my husband, like moving to a state where they allow being married to more than one person. Ha ha, and stuff like that. But, he is totally against it. I have told him I want him to go out one night and screw a random chick to try and get him use to the idea, LOL. He was very against that as well.

I have thought about saying my goodbyes and just going with this guy. I swear he is my prince charming! But that is where the twist is. I have a two year-old daughter from my previous 4 year relationship. We have been together since she was 4 months old. She calls him daddy. He has raised her. I just don’t know what to do. To be honest, the only reason I do love him is because he has stepped up and provided for us and taken my child on as his. That is a very big thing to me. But that is it. The sex is no good. We fuss all the time. He is always pissy about something, and always in a bad mood, etc.

This is so bad, LOL. I am so stuck here! Please tell me what you think I should do! This is just a little to the story. There is tons more! (Me and this guy have had sex, and it’s the best thing I have ever felt!!!) Please, please help! THANKS FOR READING DOLL!!!! – Want My Husband’s Friend

You can read my response, HERE:
http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/terrancedean/i-love-my-husband-but-i-want-his-friend-im-thinking-of-leaving-with-this-guy/

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Dear Bossip,

About eight months ago I met a very handsome man.


Almost immediately we began spending every day together, including spending the night with each other. However, I noticed that he would slowly bring his things over to my house (such as bags of clothes, toothbrush, computer, BATH TOWELS).

After two weeks of dating he asked me where I thought the relationship was going. I answered that I thought we might be able to be a couple in the near future and he told me that he wasn’t ready for a relationship because he lost his job, doesn’t have a place to stay, and is focused on trying to get back on his own two feet so that he could take care of his daughter. He also told me that he just came out of a terrible relationship (she cheated on him and he ended up getting a restraining order against her) and that he isn’t in the position to fully give his heart to a woman right now. I understood that and allowed him to move in with me.

Since then we have gotten really close, he’s busy starting a business and I am busy pursuing my law career. He never asks me for money and he contributes to rent, utilities, and groceries. He’s always with me on the weekends, he rarely goes out, and I’ve snooped through his phone and he doesn’t seem to be communicating with any other women.

The problem is, every now and then we get into these heated arguments because I am tired of just being a friend to him. After eight months of spending every day together, having sex, and getting to know each other on a deeper level, I feel that I am head over heels in love with him and ready for a relationship.

Every time I bring up the conversation he says that he can only be a close friend to me right now and that he can see us being together in the future. He always mentions that he isn’t seeing any other women and that he feels that having a relationship will distract him from doing the things he needs to do in life right now which is to save money and work to make his business a success.

He has introduced me to his family and I have met his daughter, but he introduces me as a “friend.” He never takes me out because he doesn’t have the funds, but he has done other things like cook me fancy dinners. I’m in love with him and I am willing to wait but I’m apprehensive that when he finally gets on his feet he will move on from me and all of the time we spent together will be a waste. My friends keep telling me he is using me because he doesn’t want a relationship but he keeps telling me that he wants to be financially stable before he thinks about being in a relationship. Bossip! I need your help. IS HE USING ME? – Totally Confused

You can read my response, HERE:
http://bossip.com/506307/dear-bossip-he-lives-under-my-roof-and-he-refuses-to-commit-to-me/

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Dear Bossip,

I have been with the same man on and off for almost 4 years.

For the first 5 months, he and I were inseparable. Then he went to jail. I found out he had possibly 3 babies on the way, and all due the same month (Two of them turned out to be his).

I was also pregnant, but decided to abort the baby because I was sure I was done with him and didn’t want any parts of him. Well, he gets out of jail five months later, and with lots of apologies and pleading I gave him another chance.

We planned our daughter soon after, and while I was 4 months pregnant I found out he was cheating on me. I dumped him and didn’t speak with him until a week before I was to deliver. Our daughter will be 2-years old next month and we recently started having a sexual relationship.

He wants to move in with me and be a “family,” but I don’t know if I can trust that he has changed and wants to be exclusive. Oh yeah, while were broken up he got another woman pregnant. So, besides his two soon to be 3-year olds, and our 2-year old, he has a 4-month old baby. Do you think I should give him another shot, or just move on? – TORN

You can read my response, HERE:
http://bossip.com/506815/dear-bossip-he-has-3-other-baby-mommas-but-he-wants-to-be-a-family-with-me-his-child/

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Dear Bossip,

I have been involved with this wonderful guy for over six years off and on.

During one of the times we were not involved I ended up getting pregnant by someone else. We ended up not talking for awhile after that because he was very upset with me having a baby on him.

We have no title as far as boyfriend or girlfriend. We do talk about marriage. We do tell each other we love one another. He has a problem showing his sensitive side and so do I. We live 3 hours apart from each other, and also we have never had sex. He says all his past relationships have been based on sex and he wants more than that with me. I guess my question is, am I wasting my time waiting for this to go somewhere?? Please help – Hoping He’s The One

You can read my response, HERE: 
http://bossip.com/504828/dear-bossip-weve-been-off-on-for-6-years-never-had-sex-i-wonder-if-im-wasting-my-time/#.TtfCKEq5tAY.facebook

Today Is, "Straight From Your Gay Best Friend" Advice Day With Hello Beautiful...

Dear Gay Best Friend,

I met this guy online after I decided to get on Myspace for the first time in over a year.

He left comments on my photos a while back and I decided to email him and see how he was doing. He moved up north and he asked me to text him. I am currently in a relationship, but it is not going well at all. He was aware and still wanted to talk to me.

We texted back and forth and he sent me a picture of his “thang.” He asked me to do the same, which I reluctantly did. I have never done anything like that in my life, but he was so fine and saying all the right things. Plus he is FINE!

So the sexting continues and progresses into videos. Until last week when i stopped hearing from him. We were texting everyday. What should I do? I texted him good morning on two different days and got no response. He was texting me constantly.

Now I feel horrible because there are naked pics and videos of me and they are in the hands of someone who can’t communicate with me. I am too embarrassed to tell me friends. I am on Facebook now but I’m not sure if I should try to friend him. I am pissed and confused. Help a sista out. – Texting Disaster

You can read my response, HERE: 
http://hellobeautiful.com/sex-love/terrancedean/we-met-online-i-sent-him-explicit-pics-videos-of-me-now-hes-disappeared/