Friday, December 30, 2011

Today Is, "Straight From Your Gay Best Friend" Advice Day With Bossip...

Dear Bossip,

I have been dating my boyfriend for about nine months.

We are a happy couple and falling in love every day. I am a hardworking woman who has been at her job nearly seven years, and I am finishing my degree in psychology. My man is a hospital worker who just got laid off because of cutbacks. He just found another job at another hospital and awaiting to be called. He states I am the one for him and I feel same way. Our relationship is not perfect; we take our relationship one day at a time. And, maybe, one day we will start a family, but there is something holding me back from giving him a son or going raw dog.

When I start getting serious about someone I make them take every test possible under sun at the free clinic. He agreed to do the test with a little resistance. I kept asking him why was he so reluctant to go when I had set a date to go to the clinic. I finally broke him down and he told me that he was married before and divorced (I already knew he was married and divorced according to my Intel).

My man said that he was married for ten years and that his ex wife cheated. He found out he had Hepatitis B during a blood drive at the hospital he used to work at. My man thought I would leave if he told me the truth. I did not leave him, but my fear is catching it.

We use protection every time we are intimate. He wants children now, and he wants them naturally. My question is should I do it. I know he can get a shot to prevent Hepatitis A, B, and C, but there is still a risk.  He says I am making him feel like a disease walking. I do not know what to do. – Go Raw Or Not

You can read my response, HERE: 
http://bossip.com/518730/dear-bossip-my-man-wants-to-start-raw-dogging-for-me-to-his-children-but-he-has-hepatitis-b/

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