I’m 23 years old and I have a 3year old daughter.
I’ve been with the father of my child for 10 years and he has been incarcerated for the past 3 years and will be released in June of next year.
The thing is I’ve been sleeping with my next door neighbor for a year and I’m madly in love with him. He also has a 3 year old daughter and our kids play together. When we first met he told me that he was not interested in a serious relationship and was no longer with the mother of his child and I believed him.
A few months later I found out that they were still a couple and were living together but when I asked him if this was true he denied it. He then came clean and said that they were working things out for the sake of their child and that he still wants to casually sleep with me. He has said on many occasions that he doesn’t want me seeing anyone else but he knows that I will be with the father of my child when he gets out. We still plan on sneaking around when my boyfriend gets home but I want more from him. The way I feel for him I’ve never felt for anyone else not even the father of my child, but he just won’t commit to me and I can’t trust him.
Recently, at a party, I got into a confrontation with his girlfriend because they were making out in front of me and I felt disrespected because he saw that I was there and acted like he didn’t care. He vowed to never speak to me after that incident, but that was because the bitch was there but a week later and he was at my door and we’re now sleeping together again.
It seems like he’s never going to leave her alone and I just can’t continue seeing him if he doesn’t, but I don’t know how to let go because I really love him. Should I stay and hope that he changes or just leave him alone? – In Love With My Neighbor
You can read my response, HERE:
http://bossip.com/515927/dear-bossip-my-childs-father-is-in-prison-im-sleeping-with-my-neighbor-i-want-more-with-him/
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