I need advice really badly. OK, I met my ex-boyfriend when I was 17 and he was 29 years old.
We were together for 5 years. This man also supported me financially by helping me get a car after high school and giving me a weekly allowance so I that didn’t have to work while in school. Throughout those years, we’ve had our ups and downs but ultimately I loved this man. Five years into our relationship he dumps me over something really petty. I was completely heartbroken but decided it was for the best.
So, I move away and we stayed in touch on and off. About 6 months after our break-up I realized that my life is just so much better without him. I no longer had to stress over him cheating on me or getting abusive or his momma who hated me. I ended up moving back home and started dating my now husband. This is when my ex started stalking me. He would be sitting outside my house, showing up unannounced, leaving crazy threatening voice message, etc. He’s now telling me he loves me and wants to marry me. I changed my number, involved the police, told everyone what was going on.
So, after about 3 months he finally starts to leave me alone. We get married, have a baby, move into our new house- start living a wonderful life with my hubby…Then, bam! Dude sends me an-8 page, 12 font, single spaced letter to my new house! It was part love letter and part confessions of a delusional man. We got the police involved again and I was really stressed out over the whole situation. I was missing work, throwing up, just plain sick. About two weeks later I learned I was pregnant. Then my husband says something I did not expect: he accuses me of having sex with my ex (in his words: “How did he know where we live?”) and carrying his baby.
Now, we start having marital problems. My ex sends packages to my job and home. I mean it was crazy. The last letter he sends states he will never contact me again. Good! So, I have the baby and things start to get a little more normal. (Still having marital problems though). But, I don’t know why I have been having dreams about my ex. Some dreams are of him chasing me. Others are of us being in the same room and me trying to get out. I just had one last night of him proposing me to me and saying he will take care of me and my kids. What does this all mean? Why am I dreaming of him? I don’t even dream about my husband!
I know I can’t talk to my husband about this because he will just accuse me of cheating on him again… I just cannot talk to that man. I’m starting to think that he is working with a witch doctor or something to get into my psyche. I’ve only started having these dreams after he started stalking me the second time around. I know I still care for my ex, but another relationship- HELL NO! I value myself too highly to even consider cheating on my husband with him or leaving to be with him. Last night, I jumped up and started praying over my kids because I was so shook up from the dream. What should I do? – Dreaming Of Mr. Wrong
You can read my response, HERE:
http://bossip.com/514164/dear-bossip-im-married-but-my-ex-keeps-harassing-stalking-me/#.TvISWM9XQhc.facebook
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